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โ€œ๐—ž๐—ฎ๐—ถ๐—ฏ๐—ถ๐—ด๐—ฎ๐—ป ๐—ธ๐—ผ ๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐—ธ๐—ฎ๐—ฝ๐—ฎ๐—บ๐—ถ๐—น๐˜†๐—ฎ ๐—ธ๐—ผ, ๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ผ ๐—ฑ๐—ถ ๐—บ๐—ฎ๐—ป ๐—น๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—บ๐—ฎ๐—ธ๐—ฎ-๐˜€๐˜‚๐—ฝ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐˜๐—ฎ ๐˜€๐—ฎ ๐—ฏ๐˜‚๐˜€๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜€ ๐—ธ๐—ผ.โ€
How many times have you read posts like this? You may even share the same sentiments. I, for one, feel this often, especially when self-doubt creeps in.
๐˜ฝ๐™ช๐™ฉ ๐™๐™ค๐™ฌ ๐™ฉ๐™ง๐™ช๐™š ๐™ž๐™จ ๐™ฉ๐™๐™ž๐™จ?
You observe friends and family boosting posts and supporting business ventures by celebrities or other well-known brands while paying no attention to what you are posting and selling.
Nakakabitter nga naman di, ba?
Bakit nga ganun, no? You may share the same values as them, even have the same advocacies pero they would rather boost big businesses or popular sellers instead of help you establish yours, na hirap na hirap kang itaguyod given how erratic the pandemic has been.
I've experienced this train of thought more times than you can imagine.
However, I figured it is not doing me any good. It just reinforces my self-doubt and leads me down the rabbit hole of toxic thinking.
So, hereโ€™s how I challenge this thought whenever it arisesโ€” ๐™„ ๐™–๐™จ๐™  ๐™ข๐™ฎ๐™จ๐™š๐™ก๐™› ๐™๐™ค๐™ฌ ๐™ฉ๐™ง๐™ช๐™š ๐™ž๐™ฉ ๐™ž๐™จ.
๐—œ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ธ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐—ฎ๐—น๐—น ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—ผ๐—ฝ๐—น๐—ฒ ๐˜„๐—ต๐—ผ ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ ๐—ถ๐—ป ๐—บ๐—ฒ ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐˜€๐˜‚๐—ฝ๐—ฝ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐˜ ๐—บ๐—ฒ ๐—ฒ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ป ๐˜๐—ต๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ด๐—ต ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ๐˜† ๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ถ๐—ฟ ๐—ผ๐˜„๐—ป ๐˜€๐˜๐—ฟ๐˜‚๐—ด๐—ด๐—น๐—ฒ๐˜€ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ณ๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐—ฒ. ๐—œ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ธ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐—ต๐—ผ๐˜„ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ๐˜†'๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ ๐—บ๐—ฎ๐—ฑ๐—ฒ ๐—ฎ ๐—ฝ๐—ผ๐˜€๐—ถ๐˜๐—ถ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ ๐—ถ๐—บ๐—ฝ๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐˜ ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐—บ๐˜† ๐—ท๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐˜† ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—ต๐—ผ๐˜„ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ๐˜†'๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ ๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ ๐—บ๐—ฒ ๐—ด๐—ฒ๐˜ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐˜„๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐—œ ๐—ฎ๐—บ ๐—ป๐—ผ๐˜„.
By doing so, I start to become more grateful to those who appreciate and believe in what I do. I begin focusing on them instead of those who do not support me.
Doing this will help you reframe your mindset because the reality is, not everyone will like you and believe in you. Many will bash you and bring you down.
So to those who believe and trust in me and H+H, I see you. ๐Ÿ’œ

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